Bump It Up

Behold, the belly at 5 months. Since I'm suffering from a major inability to get anything updated on the blog lately, these pictures are about a month old and the bump is even more spelindiferous. It's amazing the constant comments I get from people asking if I'm having twins or  saying I must be relieved to be due any day. Or in three months...My favorite was from a male neighbor at the bus stop this week: "Now I don't know anything about having babies, but you look BIG." Why yes, sir, I feel big. :)

The view from Lucy's vantage point. Just stayin' hydrated while I listen to a little NPR. Nerd alert!

More recently - Last week in Sun Valley, ID with Andy's family celebrating Andy's parents' 40th wedding anniversary. Separate post to come on that trip.

Yes, you did notice a recycled outfit since I literally have about five tops and three pairs of pants that fit anymore. Shirts that I wore throughout my entire pregnancy with Ben now leave half my tummy hanging out. I was really lucky to borrow lots of clothes my previous two pregnancies so I have relatively few of my own that are summer wear, but don't really want to buy more. Thankfully the starts have aligned and I've scored a few great finds in Target clearance (Exhibit 1: the purple shirt pictured).

Newsworthy

I'm not sure anyone actually reads this blog anymore since it's been so woefully neglected over the past months due to a number of factors, one big one being that I can't find the battery charger for my camera and it's dead with no hope of revival. Nevertheless, even without photo documentation, life chugs on. We have a few things happening that some would consider newsworthy, so I thought we'd share.

1. We were lucky to have three weeks worth of visitors in March/April and got to see a grandma, aunties, uncles, and cousins. Busy, but fun. More on that later.

2. I was asked to be the president of our church congregation's women's organization. I'm sad to no longer get to teach Sunday School, which I loved, but am excited for the new challenge. Thank goodness for capable people to assist and help compensate for my shortfalls.

3. Right before the visitors and new responsibilities, I found out that I am pregnant. A big surprise, since I had been to a fertility specialist just the week before to set up a plan for fertility treatments. The doctor ordered me to get an MRI of my thyroid as standard procedure, and since we have a high deductible health plan and would have had to pay $900 out of pocket, I took a pregnancy test just to reassure myself that the price would be worth it. Imagine my utter shock at seeing the little "+" sign staring back at me.  So now we just get to pay the $900+ to our OB. :) Thanks to our visitors for putting up with me while I was terribly sick and unable to do anything besides sit on the couch and try not to puke. "Try" being the operative word. I'm now 13.5 weeks along and it's impossible to hide the fact that there's a baby on board. As any of you who've witnessed me pregnant know, I have a torpedo belly. You can see the tiny baby bump in the picture below when we took cupcakes into Ben's class last Friday for his birthday.

4. Knowing that we'll have another little Hawsling this November, we swallowed our egos and are surrendering to the inevitability of becoming the ultimate suburbanites. We are selling one black Honda and and recently bought another.

5. Behold, the newest addition to our family: a Honda Odyssey.  Ben has been DYING to have a van for ages, so he finally gets his wish. Just in time for his 7th birthday. While Ben wasn't picky, I had very specific criteria for becoming a van mom. Although technically we don't need the extra room for another six months, after exhaustive research, we found a deal that was too good to pass up with everything we were looking for, and a bit more. The van is still at the dealership getting some last-minute detailing and we'll get it later this week. If you know anyone in OH who's in the market for a 2005 Honda Accord, point them our way.

So that's what's happening in our neck of the woods. For some reason even though this is also a public forum, I wanted to publish the news here first rather than on Facebook, which still somehow feels less intimate to me. But enough about us. What's happening with you? Drop a comment and say hello. :)

Fore!

 In March Andy headed down to Alabama for his now-annual boys' golf trip. They go somewhere different each year, and this time they spent three days in the Montgomery area golfing the Trent Jones Trail. The look on Andy's face tells you how much fun he had. It's one of my favorite pictures of him ever. The man was in his element. He freely admits that these are some of his favorite vacations - sans wifey, playing 36 holes a day, eating dinner, then collapsing into bed at night to do it all over again the next day.

 Andy organizes the trip and this year it included his uncle and a good friend from work.

 The boys hanging out after a round.

Another great picture: Andy with our brother-in-law, Randy (L) and his best friend from college, Steve (R). Also known as The Rands and Steve-O. Two of his favorite people in the whole world.

Gaming

Ben turns seven in about three weeks so I asked him to make a list of what he wanted for his birthday. I told him that if he didn't want to, I'd just tell all the grandparents to donate to his college savings account. The list appeared soon after. He's on a major Pokémon kick right now, so I knew that would play a major role, but was surprised to see that his first two requests were along the same lines as his Christmas list from last year. Many parents are much nicer than me, because all I have to say is, "keep dreamin' kiddo."

He's a major media addict, so there's no way we're getting him his own device. He's still bereft that Andy deleted Angry Birds off his phone and the whole time my brother was in town he begged Rikker to let him play games on his phone. Ben always wanted to ride with Rikker whenever we went somewhere and at first I thought it was because he adored his uncle and little cousin. Reality: He wanted to have a better chance of playing games while they drove.

So I've been thrilled that he started making his own Beyblades out of Legos. Real ones are little metal top-like toys that you spin and use to "battle" other people. As I understand it, whichever Beyblade is spinning the longest wins, and they can bash into each other to knock out the competition. He's very creative and figured out how to correctly weight the pieces and which ones to use to spin the best.

An assortment of his Beyblades that we played with this afternoon. After that it was Connect Four and on to CandyLand, Lucy's new favorite game. She carries the cards around and calls them her "Pokémons." Either those or Go Fish cards. Oh, the sway that older siblings hold on younger ones.

Were there any toys you coveted or games you played to copy your older siblings?

My older sister was, in my 5-year-old opinion, the world's best colorer so I always tried to copy her technique. She neatly outlined all the edges and then lightly shaded the interiors, never veering outside the lines. I look back now and can see that it was just a manifestation of her perfectionist/Type A tendencies. (Love you Nan!) :) To this day, the woman's closet is the most organized of any I've seen. And to think, it all started with the Strawberry Shortcake coloring books.

Spanx Alot

I bought my first pair of Spanx yesterday. Still not quite sure how I feel about it. I guess it's all but inevitable for us thirty-somethings who've birthed multiple kids. After Lucy was born, I asked my doctor if there was anything I could do about the perma-pooch that used to be my lower abs. She said with a smile, "Yes. You can get surgery...or wear Spanx." Option two is the more economically feasible choice at the moment. 

But for some reason, when I saw online that they now have Spanx for men, I laughed hard and it made me feel a little bit better about donning "shapewear." Now you know what to get your hubs for Father's Day. I'm sure he'll love it.

Dream House

Andy and I love driving around to explore new neighborhoods and check out houses. Tonight after taking the kids to DQ, we ended up in a heretofore unexplored neighborhood and I literally found my dream house. I love every inch of it (from the outside) and would love to end up in something like this someday. Classy, yet not too ostentatious. It even looks like a ranch-style house (bonus!) but with vaulted ceilings (double bonus!)

We'll take it and you can throw in the silver Audi parked out front.

A closer look. I even loved the wreath on the door - and I'm very picky about those kind of things.

Here's another house I absolutely adored in the adjacent neighborhood. It was perfectly situated on the hillside with the architecture taking advantage of the topography. I couldn't stop drooling over those windows, along with the stone and the contrasting wood. Very Nantucket.

Birthday Daddy

Happy birthday to Andy (and twin sister Betsy)! 

We celebrated with a french toast breakfast and tonight we're going to see the Broadway touring production of West Side Story. That was actually his Christmas present to me since it's one of my favorite plays. The note I opened on Christmas morning read, "When You're a Jet...April 18th!" So a double thank you and happy birthday to my favorite leading man.